الثلاثاء، 4 فبراير 2014

3 False Thoughts About Wealth That Are Preventing You From Being Rich

By Alex Blouck


When was the last time that you took an insightful look at your attitude towards wealth? It is quite possible that you are not fully living up to your potential in this world thanks to a misguided or faulty perception of wealth and money. If you feel that being truly wealthy is somehow bad or undesirable deep down inside, these thoughts could be holding you back from being very rich and a happier human being.

We are all brought up in a society where we are taught many different things concerning money and wealth. Your parents, teachers and society didn't mean to warp your mind or harm you but there are several thoughts that most of us feel are true without even thinking about it. These teachings might be somewhat true but they are taken a bit out of context.

First, the belief that you need money to make money is sometimes taken a gospel truth. If you feel that you are doomed to the social class or tax bracket that you currently inhabit, this might be a belief that you hold to be true. You see wealthy people who are able to invest large sums in stock and business ventures. They reap big rewards and a loss is only a small sum of what they own so it barely phases them.

Portions of this idea might be true but have you ever thought that these men and women that who are able to make these large investments didn't begin with a huge bankroll. Most of these well respected investors began with nothing and also lost their fortunes several times in their life. Most of them had to rebuild their wealth and start all over from the same place where you might be right now or even worse. What makes them so special and you so ordinary? They believe in themselves and knew that true wealth is about.

Another fallacy about wealth is that if you are to become wealthy it must come from someone else. In order for you to have large sums of money it is necessary that it be taken from other people. The more you have, the less they have. If you win then someone else must lose. In order for you to become fat with cash, someone else is going without dinner tonight. This belief must strike close to your heart and you might feel that you never want to be the cause of another human being's discomfort. You would never want to take from someone else so you can have something that you desire.

Honestly, true wealth comes not from taking but from giving. Riches and money come from helping others and solving the world's problems. Out there is a problem that needs to be solved and if you can make someones life easier, they will be willing to part with large sums of money quite gladly. If you can make someones life less painful or difficult they will be happy to exchange money so they don't have to continue living with this pain. An example might be a calculator or a computer. A dishwasher and garbage disposal are a couple of other ideas that made life easier for housewives. When you help people you aren't taking anything away from them. You are adding value to their life and they will be grateful to you.

Of course, the most powerful piece of advice that society has given us when it comes to wealth is that it is the root of evil. You may have been taught this in church or from your parents. You might even be able to substantiate this by pointing out evil men who are willing to lie and cheat in order to obtain wealth. The news is filled with such stories. Normal men driven by desperate times or greed to do unspeakable acts against humanity all to line their pockets. You might even think that without money there would be no evil in the world. You worry that you will become like these people. You might even lose your closest friends and family because of jealousy or because you change due to your new found wealth.

Here's the truth. You don't have to change a thing after you become rich. Money doesn't have to change you. It is your choice how you live your life and how you treat people. Other people's jealousy is their own problem. You have a life to live and probably people that you wish to take care of. Do you really want to sacrifice their happiness because of what other people will think? Greed and being willing to do anything for money is evil. Providing value to the world and solving some of the world's problems should be a goal that we strive towards. The money or wealth is only a byproduct of wanting to help others.

Your thoughts about money and your fears about how it might change your life are just a few aspects of investing and wealth building that all of us struggle with. Being able to wrestle these misguided thoughts into submission and replace them with more positive thoughts can change how wealth comes to you in your life. Often our subconscious holds us back and keeps us from becoming wealthy. We are done before we have even begun all thanks to our own mind. Conquer your mind and you can conquer the world. You have grand thoughts and big things that you wish to do in this life and the world is willing to pay you handsomely for helping.




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